Glass of wine

A glass of wine has many intrinsic values. Just one glass is enough to taste and be contented.  It has a higher value than a  bottle because it costs more to buy wine by the glass than a bottle.  The value of appreciation is higher because the volume is scarce. Over and above that,  a glass of wine is equivalent to the cost of a bottle.

I choose to see life as a glass of wine.  Life is enough contentment.  I used to wish for miracles in the face of adversity.  I wished that miracles could change my status quo.  How stupid I was.  In reality, life is already a miracle.  We tend to wish for a basket of miracles but cannot even handle one that is with us every moment.  Every moment, we wish for something to happen the next moment.  We let the moment lapse and live always in the next moment.  The space between now and then is non-fulfillment. In short, our present is so unfulfilled that we need to live in the future. It is easier to live in the future because it is imagery.

The purpose of life is to live and die every moment.  We like to believe that we are immortals because our ego manipulates our thoughts and actions.  Our accumulation of wealth and possessions are pre-requisites to living life for a better future.  

I have decided to handle this one and only miracle well.  To embrace it and live purposefully. No longer am I a living incidental.  I live life the way I want it.  I choose my entrance and my exit.  I choose to walk into doors and not into walls.  I choose to bend myself and flow with life.  Now I am going to enjoy a glass of wine. Cheers, with love!

Igo

I invented this word igo, to replace ego.  Ego is as hard as a husk, very difficult to break. Once broken, all the fluids will discharge and it becomes empty and light. 

We are constantly offended by other people's words and actions because our ego allows it.  We are opinionated because our ego is quick to react.  We differentiate right from wrong very quickly.  But we fail to understand, these events that are taking place are only within our small minds.  We like to see things the way they should be to suit us and not the way it already is.  Hence conflict arises and the inner battle starts.

Igo means "I" disappears.  For me, the challenge is to deal with idiots around me.  "I" must let go. Idiots are an unnecessary cause of aggravation that lingers and is mailicious to our souls. Yet they provide so many opportunities for us to learn about different people.  The learning is to accept the way they are and yet not be like them.  Our minds must be greater than them.  Our actions must be harmless to our souls.  Our words must be more deliberate than them.  Our lives must be on a higher plane than them. 

Can we do it?  Break the husk and empty it.  Let all the fluids out and do not hold them hostage in the miserable hole.  Blunt our edges and let "igo" take over. 

Arubi

I was bestowed this name and the title 'The Ruby Empress' - how could this be real?  Is this a phantasm?  I am a nobody and am happy being so.  What did this mean?  How will I be affected with such benediction?

I needed to go deep into the name, the tittle, the symbolism, the indirect conveyance.

The Ruby is considered to be the most powerful gem in the universe, and is associated with many metaphysical properties. To own a ruby is to be content and at peace. Placed under a pillow the ruby may ward off bad dreams. Ruby rings should be worn on the left hand so as to receive the life force and have protection. Given as a gift, the ruby is a symbol of friendship and love.

The ruby is also the symbol of royalty.  It is the chosen stone for kings, emperors, dignitaries and priests for its ability to help make wise and noble decisions.  The famous 'Star of India' known as the largest and costliest ruby, weighs 100 carats and is now at the Smithsonian in Washington, D.C.  Emperor Napolean gifted the The Ruby Empress Tiara to his second wife Marie Louise in 1810 and is set with oval and round rubies. 

How does this relate to me?  The "stone of fire and passion" is for one living at the heart, vibrating to the number 3, has the astrological sign Sagittarius.  It encourages one to follow your dreams and your bliss, brings light to the dark places in one's life, brings awareness to places still needing improvement, and helps you clear the path.  The Ruby heightens our love for life, gives motivation for us to choose our path wisely, teaches you how precious you are, and most of all helps you transform from the person you are to the person you want to be and wish to be, in your heart.

I accept this benevolence with gratitude, with humility and with the realization that though I may have a long way to go, at least my journey has begun.

My Jade Princess

I thought 20.02.02 was a pretty number but nature's unfolding precedes all self-made plans and pre-conceived thoughts.  Planning is based on scenarios that we intend to happen and unfolding is actualization.

My Jade Princess is nature's gift of life, synonymous to beauty, grace and purity.  The Chinese symbol 玉, (yu), has deep meaning which relates to royalty and preciousness as depicted in its Chinese character of 王 (wang), which means emperor, and 宝 (bao) which means preciousness. In short, it is an emperor's jewel that is so precious that a roof has to be put on top of the jade in order to protect it.  

Jade is an ancient symbol of love and virtue. She is fair, slim and graceful.  She is green and yet priceless.  Vulnerable and yet powerful. She is an inner ornament that never changes its place within.  She exudes confidence and flair.  She is an ornament that glimmers and shines. 

Happy Birthday, My Jade Princess!  You are imperial and rare indeed!

Aha

Rationalization is a stumbling block to realization.  Rationalization gives us power to justify our feelings, thoughts and actions.  Realization gives us humility to know our shortcomings and propels us to move on. It is the "aha" moment of acceptance that leads to harmony and actions.

We do not know ourselves because all our lives we only know how to rationalize.  When a fight occurs, we react.  The fight becomes the cause and our reactions are the effect. The cause and effect theory means that we are able to come out of the situation as flawless and become a victim of the cause. Even if we know we are wrong, our pride will see to it that rationalization pulls us away from the truth.  We opt for the easy answer but not necessarily the true answer.

We continue to live our lives in this way, missing the opportunity to know ourselves.  It is a very difficult path.  It is hard to judge ourselves but the truth is we are judged effortlessly by others.  We have always asked, "why others can do it and not me"?  In attempting the self-judgment path, why have we not asked, "if others can judge me,  why not me"?

I am learning to reconstruct my blindspots that a mirror cannot reflect and only others can see.  They may choose to keep quiet, or choose to share.  I must not grieve when my ill-self is brought to my attention by another.  I must remain open to allow truth to shine.  Realization is a gong that resonates within.  More often than not, we lash ourselves in bondage with rationalizations which are basically acquired knowledge.

Prey

We fall short of living in prayer, the highest form of living,  instead we are a living prey. Our social habit of "must have" syndrome is a manifested behavior which arises from comparison between ourselves and others in relativity.  Infants with no minds do not know, let alone compare if their presence matters to anyone or if their cries and laughter make a significance. Joyfulness and tearfulness are nature's way of communication with existence. They are one and the same. 

When we are joyful, we have tears.  When we are tearful, we erupt into joy. Tears and joy go hand in hand. Now this is so clear to me and the understanding has manifested into deeper clarity.  We seek comfort in joy and relate pain to tears.  But the reality is not!

Our "must have" pursuits, brings us temporal joy and last as long as another "must have" precedes the other.  We deplete our "must haves" by haunting them relentlessly. Our "must haves" is our inner thermometer to measure our rising needs within. Only when we are being hunted by our "must haves" then we will realize that we have been a living prey. We cover our living geography with our "must haves" but not with our moment to moment connection with reality. This requires eyes to see.

Similarly when we go traveling, we engross ourselves hastily in putting our camera into action rather than to immerse ourselves to appreciate what is in front of us.  We prefer to let our camera do the job of  "seeing" for us and store these and not know if we ever revisit those deadly shots again. We could relish those moments from our hearts!  Or would we use our mind to dig further where and when those moments were? Moments felt by our hearts are like eggs hatching into chicks.  They give birth to life. Feeling the moment injects life's treasure of spontaneity and creativity.  Pray we drop the living prey. 

Plugging in

I heard an interesting advertisment adage as I plugged into my radio today on my way to work "Let us make your resolution a reality"  I pondered for a while "Can reality be bought?" Reality is the situation now, if only we can see it. Often, our experiences sit on our crown and dictate what we see and how we should react. Experiences are easy to collect and recall and each has a vault in our minds.  No wonder they are hard to be robbed away.  They become our second nature, our best inner friend, a secured home.

In my view, experiment occurs when experience is applied to a situation.  Experiment by its nature, is only a test.  Hence, to be exact, we are deploying experiment to fix a situation now not knowing if it works or not.  In other words, we actually may not know what we are doing and what we are saying. Therefore, we do not do as we say and we do not say as we do. Scary?  I think so. I was told once, thoughts have to be deliberately constructed before they are articulated. In essence, constructive thoughts require time pause, require efforts to know ourselves within.

Now, back to my question "Can reality be bought"?  We resolve to accomplish an exercise regime and over a period of time, when we fail, we buy slimming products to materialize our own reality.  Our own reality can be bought.  Universal reality is here and now and it is not a floating commodity to be captured by the law of supply and demand. Its connection is free. All we need to do is to plug in deeply and tune in vigilantly. I am plugging in, are you?